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Reading Mike: The Annotated Bailey: Chapter 8, page 142
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desire that virtually anyone would feel toward at least one
of them. I remind myself that it is Sunday night "Glee Club"gay
night at Crobar. What would a gorgeous heterosexual couple be doing at Crobar
tonight at 2am? In fact, however, [...] this is a very
trendy setting even among heterosexuals, particularly if one is unconventional
and open-minded. (Dennis Rodman has been a regular.)
I cannot decide whether Kim is transsexual or not, and in a tribute
to her beauty, I decide for now not to approach her. If she is transsexual,
I will have other chances to meet her, and I will probably also have the
opportunity to find out from others without asking her directly. So I leave.
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at least one of them: For a supposed sex expert,
Bailey can't decide if people can be bisexual or not-- sometimes no (p.
95-96),
sometimes yes (p. 159)
[...] This warmed-over chapter was written
six years before it was published. The original version said "in
1997" here.
has been: The original version said "is"
here.
tribute to her beauty: Bailey has no problem
asking an unattractive woman if she's transsexual, but the hotties get
special treatment. Hmmm...
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Based on the frequency of their appearance on
American talk shows"Beautiful Women Who
Used to be Men," "My Wife Used to be a Man," "My Husband
Is a Woman," "My Husband Has Become a Woman"transsexuals
might appear to constitute a sizeable minority. They do not. Fewer
than 1 in 20,000 persons is transsexual. Most of us do not personally
know a transsexual, although many of us have had the experience of wondering
if a particular woman we have seen is actually a man,
and most of us who have been to even a few gay bars have
seen one. There are also transsexuals who work as
waitresses, hairdressers, receptionists, strippers, and prostitutes, as
well as in many other occupations, whom we may meet incidentally, without
even questioning whether they might have once lived as men.
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American talk shows: Bailey takes his attitude
and style from Jerry Springer and friends throughout the following chapters,
preferring exploitation and freak-show theatrics to a serious discussion
of our condition.
fewer than: Given the broad and inaccurate
definition of "transsexual" Bailey uses throughout this book,
this number is way too low. For an interesting discussion of prevalence
of transgender and transsexual conditions, see Lynn Conway's estimates.
Bailey is about to find out just how many of us there are, and how many
of us aren't happy with what he's been saying about us.
is actually a man: Note Bailey says IS, not
WAS. We are men in Bailey's taxonomy, and we will remain so no matter
what we do, pure and simple. This is the most derogatory slur you can
say to us.
gay bars: Bailey spends much of his time looking
for transsexuals in gay bars, which has clearly given him a skewed perspective
of transgender women. Throughout, Bailey conflates several transgender
identities and expressions with the specific subset of transsexuals.
There are also...: Many (myself included)
consider this one of the most offensive passages in a book filled with
outrageously defamatory statements about women in our community. Imagine
any university department chair saying this about non-transsexual women,
or replacing the word "transsexuals" with any other minority!
The fact that any publisher allowed this to be printed under the auspices
of "science" raises serious concerns about the process by which
books are subjected to review at Joseph Henry Press. Shame on the National
Academies for giving credence to this sort of unvarnished bigotry.
I recommend sending your feelings on Bailey's writing to the following
two people who read this passage and book, and apparently saw no problem
with what he said:
Joan Linsenmeier:
Bailey states this Northwestern colleague of his "read the entire
manuscript and made sure my thoughts were clear." (p. xii-xiii)
Joan Linsenmeier
Senior Lecturer, Associate Director of Undergraduate Studies
Weinberg College of Arts and Sciences
Department of Psychology
Swift Hall 311
2029 Sheridan Road
Evanston, IL 60208-2710
Phone: (847) 491-7834
Fax: (847) 491-7859
Web: http://www.psych.northwestern.edu/~jlins/
E-mail: j-linsenmeier@northwestern.edu
Jeff Robbins:
Bailey states his editor at Joseph Henry Press "made my writing
better than I could." (p. xiii)
Jeffrey Robbins, Senior Editor
The Joseph Henry Press
36 Dartmouth St. #810
Malden, MA 02148
Tel. 781-324-4786
Fax 781-397-8255
E-mail: jrobbins@nas.edu
Send them a quick note for me (here's what I sent Joan
and Jeff)-- they
need to understand how they hurt us, and they need to understand that
they will be held responsible for their part in defaming transsexual women.
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Transsexuals appear on every tenth episode or so of Oprah,
Geraldo, Ricki, et al. not because they are common, but because people find
them fascinating, and because talk shows continued existence depends
on their catering to peoples fascinations,
no matter how elevating (or not) those may be. During the last year, I have
been asked to talk to respectable media as an expert on transsexualism regarding
two cases: a race car driver who got a sex change,
and a Chicago area teacher who was living as a man in the spring and assumed
a female identity in the fall. Time Magazine recently ran a story
about the "transgender," and movies in recent years such as
Priscilla Queen of the Desert, The
Crying Game, Ed Wood, Silence of
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Oprah: Oprah should not get lumped in with Geraldo
(cancelled in 1998) and Ricki Lake, both of whom have decided to treat
transsexualism in exploitative and salacious ways ("try to guess
who's a man" type of shows). Oprah has always taken the high ground,
most recently featuring well-known transsexual author Jennifer
Finney Boylan on 6
May 2003. Bailey could learn a few things from Ms. Winfrey about sensitivity
and respectfulness. Bailey has a long way to go to reach her level of
class and decorum.
catering to people's fascinations: Some
professors' continued existences depend on this as well...
got a sex change: There's question elsewhere
in Bailey if this is even possible. More soon!
assumed a female identity: an "assumed
name" is a pretended or fictitious one; synonyms for "assume"
in my thesaurus include usurp, claim, appropriate, feign.
Priscilla Queen of the Desert: Not
about transsexuals, but about drag queens.
The Crying Game: About a transgender
woman (with an uncomfortably misogynistic scene
at the end when Dil shoots the IRA woman)
Ed Wood: About a crossdresser, not a transsexual.
Silence of the Lambs: About a deeply
disturbed psychotic murderer, modeled on serial killer Ed Gein (who was
not transgender or transsexual). Gein was also the model for Norman
Bates in Psycho). As with the ending
of Psycho with the psychiatrist, there's a scene
discussing transsexualism in Silence of the Lambs where FBI
agent Clarice Starling and Dr. Hannibal Lecter agree that this unspeakably
misogynistic murderer is clearly not transsexual. Nevertheless, this film
remains connected in public consciousness and in Bailey's mind with transssexual
women.
Stung by criticism that his portrayal had caused great damage to the
GLBT community, Silence of the Lambs director Jonathan Demme made
Philadelphia as his next feature film, but by then, the damage
was done, and over a decade later, this film remains inexorably linked
to "transsexuals and their like," as Bailey pointedly states
on the next page.
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